In my first year of college I expected to breeze through my classes, make new friendships and keep up with my existing ones and go out and party. Like a lot.
I definitely didn’t do horrible at all in the school realm but I definitely didn’t breeze through. For one I underestimated how hard my classes would be and how much I would have to give up to make sure I passed those classes. Obviously it takes time to figure out when to keep on going at it and when its time to give up and just go out with your friends for a little bit because that extra cram isn’t going to do anything. I didn’t get that at first but I got and it made everything so much more enjoyable.
Making new friendships was the easiest part of my first year and I thank God every day for the people he’s placed in my life just in this first year of college. I love pretty much all the friendships I’ve made this first year but there are some that just don’t work and that’s okay too. I’ve come to realize that you don’t have to stay friends with the girl you sit next to on your first day in sociology class. It may have been a great friendship when you’re in class together but if it’s not a friendship you see leaving the classroom that’s okay. I’ve learned that the best way to enjoy your first year is to surround yourself with people that fulfill you and bring joy to your heart no matter where you are.
As for keeping up with existing friendships… that’s
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