7 Bits and Pieces That Build an American Life

1. Where It Begins

Ellis Island is the first piece that helped build an American life and the place that bonded my family to the United States. It’s where my great-grandfather first stepped foot on American soil. From that first foot step on ward he created a life here in America that would open doors not only for himself but for the generations of the Franco family to follow. My great-grandfather took the first leap of faith that would secure his family’s continuous growth from the 1900s to now. Ellis Island is the first stepping stone on the path to a better life for my great-grandfather. He came to America with nothing but through America gained more than he could’ve ever dreamed of.

2. Baby Steps

My great-grandfather came to America with little ability to speak English but with lots of hope to become a true American. My great-grandfather worked odd jobs day in and day out to make ends meet for his family when he first moved to America. After finding a stable job cutting hair he mastered his craft and saved enough to buy his first home for his family in Coney Island. A home is the second bit because it’s where my great-grandfather saw his hopes for a better life becoming a reality. America was built by those who wanted to a better life for themselves. They left their country to create a place where they would be accepted and where they would prosper but most importantly they created a home for themselves. America became a home to grow their family for generations to come- a place where they could make the life they dreamed of.

3. Giving Back

My great-grandfather had so much love for America. The country that let him reap the benefits of his hard work that he otherwise wouldn’t have in Italy held a special place in his heart and he made sure everyone knew that. My great-grandfather instilled that love for America into his son, my grandfather, which led my grandfather to enlisting in the army in World War II. He wanted to give back to the country that gave his family everything. My third piece that helped build an American life is what one can give back to America whether it be their service in the army like my grandfather or their service to the people as a doctor. Being American is not just the opportunities this country gives you to better yourself but also the opportunities you give to your country to make it better.

4. Moving On Up

My grandfather came back from the war with an even greater love for his country and the want to build something from the ground up. His want turned into an idea and through lots of hard work and saving money he turned it into a reality when he opened up his own grocery store in the heart of Coney Island. It was the first thing he owned all by himself, his pride and joy, his thoughts turned into creation and it was a success. Dreams are my fourth bits and pieces. American accomplishments are born because of a dream for something whether its a dream of creating something on their own or a dream of bringing justice to the American people as a lawyer. Those dreams give them the want to work hard and to take leaps of faith that would open up the opportunities that would make them successful.

5. Another Leap

Not every aspect of American opportunity is sunshine and rainbows. Sometimes opportunity comes in the form of a breakdown of another opportunity. Urban Renewal was taking over New York and with that they took over my grandfather’s grocery store. Instead of fighting it and losing even more, my grandfather picked up his family and moved to Florida. The move to Florida ended up being extremely beneficial to his family but yet again it was a leap of faith that led him to that opportunity. My fifth bit is failure. Every single person has failed at something in their life but through failure comes a renewed purpose for their goals. Failure forces people to go outside their comfort zone and to work for another way to get to succeed. Failure opens doors they didn’t even know were there, making opportunities they didn’t even know existed.

6. Another First

As successful as my great-grandfather and my grandfather were, no one in my family had a college degree yet. It wasn’t until my father, my grandfather’s second born, decided to go to the University of Florida did anyone in my receive a college diploma. My grandfather’s dreams of a better life for his children were becoming a reality. Education is my seventh piece. Education is the master key to almost every door that one wants to open. Education in America gives a person equity which grants them opportunities others who aren’t educated can’t receive.

7. Dreams Made into Reality

My final bit that helped build an American life is faith. Without faith my great-grandfather wouldn’t have come to America. Without faith my grandfather wouldn’t have moved to Florida after losing it all. Everyone has faith in something whether it’s faith that everything will work out the way it’s supposed to or faith that you can accomplish your goals. All of my great-grandfather and grandfather’s dreams of a better life for their children have become reality. My great-grandfather created a life in America that would foster a better life for his son who would then create an even better life for his children. My grandfather put three out of his four children through college and every single one of his seven grandchildren are in or have already graduated from college.

An American life is created through ideas and places that take root and foster each person to do what they can to make the life they always dreamed of. Ideas give motivation for the future and places create memories to look back on. These bits and pieces together build up generation after generation and over time to create stories of goals achieved and American dreams turned into reality.

Strength in the Struggle

Through this writing 101 I’ve learned to appreciate the struggle- that scary, stressful point in a student’s life where you have absolutely no idea how to start an assignment, or get past a block or get an idea out of your head and onto a paper. In high school, the struggle stopped me but through this course I’ve learned to use that struggle to my advantage.

The struggle isn’t a bad thing even if it seems like it is. It’s a motivator of sorts that pushes me to do my best work possible. Having so many ideas about where to go with a paper or stressing about how to make the flow of paper better aren’t bad traits, they’re traits I have because I care about my work.

In my blog posts, I often wrote about not being able to get my ideas out of my head and onto the paper or being at a loss for which direction I should go in. In high school I never asked for help if I was stuck or didn’t know what to do with an assignment out of fear of asking for help. I’m extremely independent and that’ll never change but through this course I’ve learned that there’s nothing wrong with asking for help when I need it. 

Mrs. B from the beginning said she would be there every step of the way to help us whenever we needed it but also we could go to the writing center. Having her there to conference with was something that helped me in the beginning stages but I get very shy when I have people I know read my work so the place that was most helpful was the writing center. I conferenced with the writing center for my papers and each time they showed me that there was no stigma in getting help.

Each time I went I felt even stronger about how much of a positive addition the writing center was to my university experience. I struggled so much with getting ideas out of my head and onto the paper for units 1 and 3 and when I met with the writing center they helped me gather my thoughts and make them actual paragraphs on paper. Getting out of my head is one of my biggest struggles as an academic and reaching out and asking for help is one of the best ways to figure out how to fix it.

This semester has shown me that it is okay to have too many ideas for how to take a paper because that shows I’m invested in my work but I can’t let having all those ideas stop me from putting out the best work I can put out. I have to ask for help when I need it and time after time, that help is the best thing for me.

The fact that I went, got help with my work and even admitted it in my blog shows me that I’ve grown as a student since the beginning of this class. I shook that fear that I might look like I don’t have everything figured out and put myself out there and that shows me that Writing 101 has benefitted me in ways four years of prep school never could.

Tags: Growth, Identity, Journey, Process

Daily Write 9/26

I think the comment was horrid and talking like that and being racist doesn’t belong here on campus. Outright racism like that puts everyone in the community in an uncomfortable place. It places fear in and pains some while it frustrates and angers others. Having a positive response as a community is extremely important because if we don’t come together and act as one unit we’ll fall apart and succumb to racial tensions just like our country is right now. I personally don’t agree with the chancellor on a lot of things so his first response wasn’t surprising but it was disappointing. If he can move on and prove that he is willing to unite our community everyone can get past this but if not we’re going to fall apart. I personally don’t agree with any form of protest because while it is effective it puts everyone not just the people protesting in some form of danger. What they accomplished was obviously good and had a positive outcome I just don’t agree with the means they took to get there. They could’ve taken up the issue via email or have every single person who felt this comment was wrong make a point to get an appointment with the chancellor to show how may people care and how many people thought it was wrong. Obviously anything can be taken as a form of protest but it is what it is and it what was what it was and all we can do from here is hope and work toward a unified community here at Ole Miss.