“For men the question is still powerful” : we have worked so hard to be sure women have what they want that we have almost forgotten that men have some unreasonable standards too
“He is so gay” : the realization that we connect sexuality to this idea is even harder to hear for a guy because it is drilled into their heads this is wrong, women are allowed to be strong today but men are not allowed to show emotion still
“Other guys are constantly watching us” : While girls are catty it is easy to get over rumors, it is harder to get over something people have observed and judged you on as if you have done something wrong
“The testing starts early” : Men are taught from a very young age that to be a man when they grow up they must act a certain way