Connect 10: Do I have hidden prejudices?

My topic is prejudice, and one of the causes of prejudice is stereotyping. Even though I am anti-prejudice, I have stereotyped people before. A couple of weeks ago, I saw a muslim girl wearing the hijab. I honestly became afraid because Muslims are stereotyped as being bombers, killers, etc. I am normally ok when I see them, but I guess I was more afraid because this time I could only see her eyes. I became so nervous that I moved to the other side of the sidewalk. I felt really bad for doing that, because I thought that maybe I am prejudice against Muslims. I would like to think I am not, but there may be a little bit in me. All in all, I think I am just skeptical because their track records have not been too good. I know not all Muslims are killers, but that is all that is portrayed in the media which has caused me to be somewhat afraid of them. I am still against prejudice, but I do think there is a difference between being prejudice and skeptical.

Equality

Just a Family- This caught my attention because it talks about how interracial couples in America are still struggling to be seen as a norm for family life. I connect with this because I have a cousin who just recently married a white man and they both already had kids. Her husband’s father did not support the marriage and refused to attend the wedding. This really upset me because, if America is suppose to be so past racism, why are people still struggling with interracial marriage? The high school I went to was very against it. I was always seen as the girl who did not see race. They would ask me all the time about race, and I would always say that I loved all races. They probably did not believe me, but I did not care. My high school was incredibly racist at times, and they absolutely hated interracial dating. I had a coach that told her basketball girls to stay away from the black boys. I do not ever see myself as being one of those people who hates to see interracial couples. I think it is a beautiful thing and a step forward in our world becoming more equal when it comes to race.

Cause of Prejudice-  This one caught my attention because it talks about why people are prejudice. I connect with this one because this has always been a question of mine. Why are people prejudice? Do they realize they are prejudice? Most of the time people who are prejudice were raised to see this one particular thing as the right way.

Accordion Families

Should adult children move back home with their parents after they have graduated college? One of my sources says that it is not our generation that has become lazy, but rather we have changed the definition of adulthood. Another source says that we should not blame our generation but learn to accept it. I feel that after you have reached a certain age, you should move out of the house and start your own life. You should not depend on your parents to feed you or take care of you. You are a grown person, and you should act like it. You wanted freedom when you were younger, and now that you are of age, you do not want it???

Discussion

I think we should discuss how we feel about racism. Is it something everybody has ever dealt with. If you have, how did it make you feel. If not, why do you think it is still so prevalent in a world that claims to moving forward? Is racism still an issue in the United States or are we making progression? Will racism ever really be gone or will it linger on forever?

Gatto’s Proposal School

The ideas that appealed to me the most on the new school PowerPoints were incorporating everyday life skills in high schools in order to better prepare students for the real world. I also liked that children would be able to choose their own schedule. At the high school that I went to, our schedule was already made out for us. We had no say so in what we wanted to take. I also liked how kids would work in groups to better their social skills which I believe is very important. Even though group work can be difficult at times, because you have to work on other people’s time, the experience is great. It gives you a chance to work with new people and maybe establish new friendships. The time schedule was nice too. A few groups wrote there would be fifty minute classes and an hour lunch which I think is needed for high school students. At my schools we only had twenty-five minutes for lunch which everyone absolutely hated. We had to rush out of class, fight for microwaves, and be done eating all within twenty-five minutes. Being able to leave freely is also something that I really liked. I still think you should be respectful to the teacher and not try to leave when they are teaching. One of the ways we could try to incorporate more group work in our class is by not only allowing the students to pick the groups, but also having the teacher pick for us. Maybe we could also work with some of the people from the 10:00 class so that we could get new perspectives on things.